It rings like crazy right now in my head. I memorized it unconsciously.
Today past by with me simply trying to get rid of a feeling. A feeling that we all knew very well. A feeling that comes out of nowhere and never wants to leave. Yes... That feeling between crush and like. You're not sure if it's real cause you never seem to think about that person that way. You're just at lost of what to do. Waiting seems to make the feeling even stronger even though you're trying to get rid of it.
It can be lots of reasons why you don't want to go after it. Maybe your feeling would look like one of these:
1. You're not ready for the hurt... again
This one is probably most common to the one who's been in a relationship before and got their hearts broken. You've been hurt too long and you're not ready to move on yet. The thoughts of getting hurt was simply too much. After all... Why give your all when they don't even try? Second chance is hard to be given, there's a reason why it's called a second chance, and not second chances.
2. Don't want to ruin friendship
Ahh... Everyone has gone through this stage before. After all there was a saying about the best relationship sometimes comes from your best friend. It might be true, but your thoughts are thinking the opposite. You're thinking what if yours are the one that doesn't come true. You just can't see yourself with that person and instead you kept that feeling inside and sometimes it was never revealed. In the end... You're with someone else and they're with someone else. Everything works out right? Not really. The feelings sometimes linger and it gets into your current relationship. Step one of being in a relationship is to leave all past feelings behind.
3. Loooooooooooonnnnnnggggg Distance
You simply don't believe in a relationship with long distance. You can't hold their hands, you can't kiss them, heck... you can't even see them face to face. You see no point of relationship without intimacy. But sometimes long distance relationship tends to be the strongest kind of relationship in the end. If you can still be with one another with the distance, imagine being together side-by-side. It may work in your head, but reality and fantasy is different and you're simply a realistic kind of person.
I'm talking about those three feelings from my own perspective and I've felt it firsthand. This is by no means a guide or anything like that. It's simply something I want to share, especially when I'm having one of those feelings (or should I say all). In all circumstance... Don't rush into a relationship. Your "the one" is not that easy to find, so be patient.
2. Don't want to ruin friendship
Ahh... Everyone has gone through this stage before. After all there was a saying about the best relationship sometimes comes from your best friend. It might be true, but your thoughts are thinking the opposite. You're thinking what if yours are the one that doesn't come true. You just can't see yourself with that person and instead you kept that feeling inside and sometimes it was never revealed. In the end... You're with someone else and they're with someone else. Everything works out right? Not really. The feelings sometimes linger and it gets into your current relationship. Step one of being in a relationship is to leave all past feelings behind.
3. Loooooooooooonnnnnnggggg Distance
You simply don't believe in a relationship with long distance. You can't hold their hands, you can't kiss them, heck... you can't even see them face to face. You see no point of relationship without intimacy. But sometimes long distance relationship tends to be the strongest kind of relationship in the end. If you can still be with one another with the distance, imagine being together side-by-side. It may work in your head, but reality and fantasy is different and you're simply a realistic kind of person.
I'm talking about those three feelings from my own perspective and I've felt it firsthand. This is by no means a guide or anything like that. It's simply something I want to share, especially when I'm having one of those feelings (or should I say all). In all circumstance... Don't rush into a relationship. Your "the one" is not that easy to find, so be patient.
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